Category Archives: Relationships

What if you could make the most of your mistakes?

What would it be like if you could take your mistakes, misfortunes and resentments and change them into something you treasure? Not everyone is familiar with the term “Alchemy,” but when you learn the sacred science of Alchemy, your life … Continue reading

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Relationships 101 – Are You Generating “Heat” in your relationships?

A colleague of mine says, “unmet needs are like heat seeking missiles” – and they always find a target! If you don’t know, a “heat-seeking missile” uses infrared tracking to hit targets. They do this by finding the objects or … Continue reading

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Relationships 101 – Difficult Conversations – Part One

Difficult conversations.  How do you handle them? Do you blast through people’s boundaries because you want to get it over with (or get it off your chest), not stopping for a moment to consider the impact on the other? Perhaps … Continue reading

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Shame on Who? (Part Two)

Sexuality and shame seem to go hand in hand. Mix together multigenerational carried shame; the sexual rush or sexual repressions from adolescence and you have the perfect recipe for ‘history repeating itself’. They say it takes three generations to break … Continue reading

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Shame on Who?

Just before my 15th birthday, my life as I’d known it unexpectedly changed – and it wasn’t good. My father was famous for handing out severe punishments.  His worst ones involved taking away something I really loved to make a … Continue reading

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Rewarding Relationships

Latte Magazine recently did a series of articles on “Mid Life Crisis”.  There are a number of great articles on various aspects of life.  I was asked to contribute an article on relationships in mid life.  While an early mid-life … Continue reading

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