Spiritual Principle #7 The Antidote to Indecision

Have you ever struggled with intimacy or became mentally drained trying to decide if you should stay in a relationship or escape it?  For some, it’s challenging to make a commitment without feeling engulfed. For others, the idea of being rejected or being alone for the rest of their life is very painful.

If you relate to the above (even just a little), don’t be too hard on yourself before you look back on your past relationships or examine what you’ve witnessed about relationships in your formative years. There is a reason.

Spiritual Principle #7 is essential for intimate relationships.  It’s also an essential ingredient for  any relationship that is worthwhile.

Indecision is a very frustrating condition in other aspects of life as well. Some people miss the boat simply because they couldn’t make up their mind. “Procrastination” they proclaim! Others are very uncomfortable with change, so they avoid decisions that will change their circumstances.

What could be missing? What needs to be cultivated so people can experience more love and success?

If you need to make up your mind about something or you want to make better decisions, then watch this short video to lean about the spiritual principle that will improve the quality of your relationships and your life.

Warmly,

Shirley

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Spiritual Principle #8 The Antidote to Fear and the Willingness to Risk

Do you sometimes feel like you’re merely surviving? Perhaps you fear there’s not enough love, money or time? In those times, would you like to know how to break the cycle of survival and learn how to thrive?

Some people have been anxious about certain things for so long, they are satisfied with relief. They become discouraged and forget about the important matters of their heart. They settle for survival without realising it!

Accepting relief is like saying the absence of pain is happiness. Going beyond relief is necessary to happiness and fulfilment.

Spiritual Principle #8 is more than just relief from fear. It is the key ingredient to thriving – in your relationships, your finances and any other important area of your life.

Is there an area of your life where you are you not thriving? If you’d like to know what’s required, then watch this short video to learn about the spiritual principle that will stop you from being discouraged and let you thrive.

Warmly,

Shirley

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Spiritual Principle #9 The Antidote to Self Pity

The holiday season is upon us and with it comes the end of another year.  Once the madness of the Christmas rush is past, many start reflecting on the year gone past.  So how was your 2013?

If you had some significant disappointments: i.e. the breakdown of a relationship; job or a project that went pear-shaped, then perhaps you won’t be chiming “Ho Ho Ho”?  In fact, you might be feeling somewhat depressed and a bit sorry for yourself.

Now, there is a difference between feeling grief (a mixture of feelings, which are sometimes overwhelming) and feeling self-pity.  It’s confusing and we often get it back to front. Not knowing the difference causes two conditions. 1) Self-pity keeps you stuck and people will eventually run from you.  2) Unexpressed grief causes confusion; illness and eventually depression.

If you think you may be feeling too sorry for yourself and are feeling a bit stuck then watch this short video to learn about the spiritual principle that will help you open up to receive more joy and love in your life.

If you have unexpressed grief over any area of your life, then seriously look into attending our January 12 day program or booking a session with me so I can help you move through it.

Your holiday season really can be one of more hope and love.

Warmly,

Shirley

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Spiritual Principle #10 The Antidote to Anxiety

“All You Need is Love”

This concept made popular from the Beatles hit song is a powerful principle. Love has been known to heal, create euphoria and soothe the heart. Why then is it so confusing and dare I say frustrating?

The problem is that people confuse love with need. We don’t know how to love – especially when it comes to loving ourselves. Many of us “needed” more love in our formative years but unfortunately our caregivers didn’t have the resources or the knowledge to fully express their love and teach us how to love.

If you’d like to learn more about how to love others as well as yourself, then watch this short video to learn about the spiritual principle that will free you from anxiety and bring more joy into your life.

Warmly,

Shirley

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Spiritual Principle #11 The Antidote to Loneliness

“You’ve Lost That Lovin’ Feeling”

In this popular song, the Rightous Brothers were speaking of the loneliness one feels when they have lost the feeling of love.

Surprisingly, the holiday season can be a lonely time for many. In fact, in the 30 years I have been practicing, I have heard more people talk about feeling lonely whilst in a relationship, than those who are single. Then there are those who feel lonely in a crowd, or at work; or with their friends.

Consider the people you interact with on a daily basis. You probably wouldn’t know who was suffering from loneliness. Why?  Because there seems to be quite a bit of shame associated with feeling lonely and people cover it up very well. They cover it up with “smiles”, “caretaking others” and especially with “busyness”. And doesn’t the Christmas season especially help people mask their loneliness with these acceptable behaviours?

If you’d like to learn more about the antidote to loneliness, then watch this short video and perhaps you can have a real connection with someone who is feeling lonely.

Warmly,

Shirley

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Spiritual Principal #12 – The Antidote to Guilt and Receiving

“Are You Ready for Forgiveness – The Antidote to Guilt and Receiving”

Spiritual Principle #12 is the final one for this series. It’s the antidote for guilt and it helps you to receive. I thought this one was appropriate for the holiday season.

To help you gain more from this series, I suggest you ask yourself: Am I the same person as when I began this spiritual journey? What transformations have occurred in my life? What new decisions have I made? What have I let go of? What am I going for next?

I’d love to know about some of your experiences. I find peoples spiritual journeys very inspiring.

When we practice spiritual principles in our daily life, we experience transformative changes. We grow – hopefully for the better. We become clear on matters or relationships that used to confuse us. We start expressing ourselves authentically, which makes us feel satisfied.

Our next focus will be on the process of Alchemy – which can change your life beyond transformation. Watch this space, so you can learn how to turn the lead in your life into gold!

If you’re ready to say goodbye to guilt and starting receiving more, then watch this short video click here and perhaps you’ll discover why I saved this principle for last!

Warmly,

Shirley

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What if you could make the most of your mistakes?

What would it be like if you could take your mistakes, misfortunes and resentments and change them into something you treasure?

Not everyone is familiar with the term “Alchemy,” but when you learn the sacred science of Alchemy, your life can change in ways that you cant even imagine.

“Alchemising” a situation or a relationship involves a process that integrates science with the mysteries of spirituality.  Alchemy shows you how to take your mistakes, misfortunes and resentments and change them into positive experiences in your life – leaving you with no regrets!

Isn’t your life worth investing 5 minutes to discover more about Alchemy and turning the lead in your life into gold? Watch this short video to learn more about Alchemy and how it can free you to live a more joyful and prosperous life.


With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, maybe the most ‘loving’ thing you can do for yourself and others is to take stock of unresolved issues from either past or current relationships?

I invite you to take up the challenge and alchemise your relationships and your life.

Warmly,

Shirley

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